A relationship does not hold just to have anyone beside or moments of pleasure, for those who want something serious, there are factors that go beyond and become needs to be met with a person they know, they like and that love.

Having boyfriend means for a woman far more than you think and the same to men, because when they do it with conviction, seeking to meet needs beyond the physiological or social, that is, goes along what emotional and personal growth with the help of someone who feels special things and vice versa. The problem is that with the changes in society, crises and the importance of self-centeredness and decay of values and respect, the relationship has also entered into crisis, and then love, togetherness, dating or marriage more durable or mutual commitment becomes more complex to find, live ever.

The situation is so serious that exists between the supposedly “love” that carry all the races are going to live unknown, which are separated at two months, they simply stay together for sex or despite being together for more than 8 or 10 years, shared without really getting to know.. The most important needs that men and women looking to meet when seeking a mate, are affection, communication and desire to have a conversation with someone and commitment. Although keep in mind that this is valid when a couple or lasting relationship will, not of those in which only behave as known with certain rights, but there is no intention to keep something serious.

– The affection is essential, for nothing nicer than someone who embraces consents or would express love through words and details, and left out the fact to maintain the relationship just for sex, but something more emotional and often can be expressed. Often it is the girls who always need more affection.

– Communicate daily and maintain a pleasant conversation about any topic with the person you love is something that is enjoyed each other, not necessarily should last many hours, but must reflect the interests of each other, than you think, what feelings, constructive criticism, in order to correct and to learn to listen and speak.

– Commitment is something they want more girls than men, but when they make the decision, it is because they really want. For women, the fact that a man committed to the relationship, is a sign of respect, honesty and trust, that if you have an interest and desire to take forward the ideal that are created together and that in some part, it has and will have the exclusive right in his heart and mind.

Although these needs are important to both, there are more men into account within a relationship and are the company, sex and admiration, either physical or talents you have.